"Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2004  Posts: 837  |    rdb7777,
  Let me say it again -- you don't know yet whether you have cancer, so you may be assuming something that doesn't exist.  Even if you do end up with a cancer diagnosis, you know there are many of us here who have been through the experience and want to help you through it.  Don't presume that life is worse afterward.  I can't begin to list the many ways that my life has improved in the almost 16 years since my treatment, and my long-term side effects are so minor that they're barely worth mentioning.  Focus on a day at a time, and if it turns out you need our help, we are here.
  Cathy        
Tongue SCC (T2M0N0), poorly differentiated, diagnosed 3/89, partial glossectomy and neck dissection 4/89, radiation from early June to late August 1989
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