rdb7777,
I hear the pain and worry in your words. Dan had the cancer and has fought hard like so many others on this board. God gave us both strength and continues to give us strength to endure as well as some very special family and friends. I can't even imagine life w/o him even with all we have been thru over the last two years. I can't say that I haven't been depressed and I have had to get meds to help, but everyday is a new day and we try to enjoy it moment by moment. Just take it a moment at a time and realize it is so worth the fight!
God bless and take care,
Debbie


Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.