Clearly Mark, Danny, and Daniel have experienced what I was referring to which I found in my own experiences. I think that it is part of a growth process, and their comments and new, enlightened perspectives reinforce the point. Unfortunately not everyone finds this path. I weekly get email from frustrated, angry people that want specific answers to unanswerable questions. Some of these people are years out from their brush with infinity. I think that you have to find and choose this new perspective, it doesn't choose you.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.