Hello Lily,

I don't have any great revelations for coping at this time in your life. I just wanted to reply and let you know someone out here cares and is thinking of you. I am sorry for your recent loss. I'm sure more members of OCF will be along and maybe they will have helpful suggestions, or maybe they will just let you know we are here, and sometimes that in itself may help you cope.

Good luck on your scans. Keep us posted.
Dinah