Dear H. Try not to panic! Your role is most likely going to be the level head that keeps a handle on things. Not easy to do-BUT DO-ABLE! Read the posts here on "How to get through it". It wil help you start to formulate a plan. Keep asking questiona here and when she sees the Docs.I hope you go with her to appointments-that way you will hear 1st hand what is being talked about. You gotta stay strong now. Amy