So sorry to hear it is back. But have hope and strength! I know it seems grim, especially for your husband. It's daunting with the pain and discomfort let alone the bills and psychological issues. But at the end of the day, if you make the simple decision you want to live, then I think the rest comes along a little easier. It sure sounds like he has a supportive wife and (I can say from experience) that's a huge help. Good luck! Sending positive vibes from North Carolina. Peace...


Matthew 44 years old
Former smoker
12/09 diag Stage IV SCC Nasopharyngeal
1/10 6 rnds cisspl/35 rad
PEG tube 6 mo
Xerostmia (permanent)/Loss of taste/smell 6 mos+
Clear PETs 2 years
Clear MRI 2 more years
12/14 HPV pos SCC left tonsil
1/14 Tonsillectomy on left + one for clr mrgns
3/14 Removal left lymph nodes
Ongoing-check ups and screening at ENT
QOL overall good. New normals, but happy to be alive and learning more everyday to overcome fear and enjoy my life and my family.