Hi Danny, it certainly is great to read that you have survived your cancer . Seen your kids grow up. Enjoyed a wonderful marriage. However, you are entitled to "whine" as you put it. Dental issues and Osteoradionecrosis are not to be sneered at. They cause many here unpleasant and long lasting issues. Issues you know about. You have done the PEG before so are familiar with those issues, not trivialising them either. I do so wish you a quick and long lasting resolution to all these current problems.
Tammy

Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!