Hello Deb; The support of my husband through my battle with cancer has been the glue which has held me together. Because he is so committed to my recovery, how can I be any less committed? On certain days it made the impossible- possible.
We are still in the middle of the fight with my first recurrence coming hard on the heels of radiation, which was very discouraging.
Go to all his appts and listen hard...you will likely hear better than he does.It is such a gift to have that balanced view with other interpretations of conversations with docs or treatment providers.
I can sense your resolve just by the fact that you are on this board asking questions.Bravo!! There is a lot of good advice available around here. I've taken advantage of a lot of it.
May you also feel supported as you undertake this important and difficult journey with your husband.
All the best, Fran