I realized last night that it had been three months since Matt's passing. That's just 12 short weeks. Though I will tell you, each day feels like it takes three to pass by. The time has been creeping along. When I step back and realize how short a time it's been, I do try to take it easy on myself.
You're right Amy, there aren't any deadlines to meet.
Today we celebrate my son's 14th birthday. Matt was always so excited to shop for him, and had the best time watching him open presents.
We started our day with breakfast at Cracker Barrel, spending a few hours at the office, then off early to shop! Determined to have a great day smile


CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.