Karen,

Your post put a smile to my face. Lol. It's not just men because I didn't want cuddles sometimes either whilst I was in treatmet. For some reason I found any kind of intimacy too much work. If course if my husband didn't try to cuddle then I would feel abandoned but if he did then I found it annoying. Hehehe.

Minh


35 Yrs old
03/10 SCC T1-T2
Partial Glossectemy end March - margins not clear enough.
While waiting for resection - cancer returned,2 new cancerous lumps
Re-section End May & flap from cheek attatched. Margins clear.
Mid June - 4 teeth out
Mid July -32 Rads and 3 Cisplatin
6th Sept 10 Finished Treatment!!