Deb - You are right, this is a place to help make the journey a little easier. No need to be sorry about anything you need to bring up or ask about. Sharing the painful memories with each other helps to make them a little easier for all of us to bear - especially when someone else has been through a similar experience and can empathize. Waiting is one of the hardest things to do, whether it's a few days or much longer. Hope the weekend in the mountains for you and Bob will be a nice relaxing time for you.