Sharlee - Please do get some help. Don't wait. I think you mentioned in a previous post that alcohol may be a problem for your husband, and if you wait, the emotional abuse could easily escalate into physical abuse. I waited too long, my children suffered and that is no way to live for anyone especially when there are other serious health issues to deal with. There is a better life for you and your children out there. Take care of YOU. Email me if you want to talk and I will call you.