Sharlee,
It sounds like your husband needs to find other arrangements while you take care of your medical needs. From one woman to another, if a man ever said something like that to me in my darkest times............he would be out the front door with a quickness. He has anger issues that have no place in what you need right now, so you need to distance yourself from him. What a cold man he must be.

I agree with Brian, get some professional help with this.
Minnie


SCC Left Mandible. Jaw replaced with bone from leg. Neck disection, 37 radiation treatments. Recurrence 8-28-07, stage 2, tongue. One third of tongue removed 10-4-07. 5-23-08 chemo started for tumor behind swallowing passage, Our good friend and much loved OCF member Minnie has been lost to the disease (RIP 10-29-08). We will all miss her greatly.