Rob,
Are you being treated at a major Cancer Center?
In any case, a second opinion may be wise.

As I recall, a ND when nerve or vascular invasion is involved can be a real game changer, so I would want the surgeons to be very experienced with those complications.

I have been told when one doctor recommends another it is usually a good sign.

I had a node near the Carotid that they were concerned about, and despite scans, were not sure until they got in there.

I was given worst and best case scenarios, and I think even the best case scenario sounded worse than it has actually been. I hope that hold true for you.

Also, two ENT surgeons performed my SND.