Rosie,
The plea that you posted on Motley is stated better and simpler than my attempts to explain.

Is it ok to copy and I will forward to my email contacts?

I will personalize it and acknowledge that you are saying what I would like them to do.

ginny

Ginny, spouse of MikeG. SSC BOT T2N1M0 Stage III, Dx 06/27/06 at age 52, Tx 07/31/06 through 09/28/06 Chemo Cisplatin & 5FU x2, Radiation x42. Cancer free and doing well.