Pam, Im sorry things are so difficult for your husband. Being a Marine, Im sure this is very hard for him going thru something he cant control. Good news is that he is almost at the 1/2 way point but thats also where things start getting harder.

I spent alot of time in bed resting too. Radiation wears you out. If he is getting proper nutrition and hydration then thats soemthing that will help make him feel better. Many people here have had to take anti depressants to get thru the mental aspect of this terrible disease.

Make sure you take a few minutes for you daily too. Dont let this wear you out also, it can be a very difficult job being the caregiver.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile