One day at a time is all any of us can handle...and that means that we can NOT handle today AND yesterday, and certainly not tomorrow. Live in the moment. Maybe IF you had done something differently, it would have been worse in some way. Don't beat yourself up. You don't know. All you can do is to live the moment that you are in.

(I sound like I have it all figured out....don't be fooled for a minute...but I DO try to think in more positive ways.)

Colleen--T-2N0M0 SCC dx'd 12/28/05...Hemi-maxillectomy, partial palatectomy, neck dissection 1/4/06....clear margins, neg. nodes....no radiation, no chemo....Cancer-free at 4 years!