Thanks for your support. We see the oncologist tomorrow to get his advice on treatment. Surgery on the irradiated area really isn't an option. The neck dissection, after the incision reopened, took ages to heal, and that was only after they grafted flaps from the healthy pectoral muscles, and a skin graft from his leg over that. I'm just sick, thinking I should have pushed for treatment sooner. The woulda-coulda-shoulda's are just tearing me apart. All we can do now is focus on dealing with the situation that we have.

Barb