Suzanne, I understand what you mean about the metanl stress of Cancer. Drs. should spend more time in that area. I know mine gave me a 5 minute phone call and the next time I saw him was in the hopsital getting ready for a second surgery. Then I did not see him again until the two week check-up. Seems like they should give you some support or refer us to some mental support places. I know for me I have sought counseling, but I can not get my next appt. until August. I am wait listed in July. I know we will get to the point when we do not feel scared all the time, but it may take awhile. We are all here together.