Communication is something that only seems to come back after the tx is long behind them i am afraid.I dont mean the speaking,i mean letting us know how they really feel,and if your man wasn't the best at showing his emotions he will probably not start now.The silences can be deafening and at times are only broken by frustration and anger.Its a guessing game wendy butfortunately for you there are men on theses boards who will be more than happy to tell you how they felt post diagnosis and during tx,something hopefully we will never really know.

love liz