| "OCF Down Under" Platinum Member (300+ posts) Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 453 | Hi David, thanks so much for your advise. We have had 2 different hospitals give us their opinions. The first hospital advised they would not do surgery at all because the cancer was too extensive. The second and current hospital told us they could do it but the after effects would not be good for his quality of life and would only increase his chances by 10%. But they at least gave us the choice. He has decided against surgery due to only 10% chance and the after effects. We are putting all of our hope into chemo and radiation but the doctor's say our chances are minimal. I don't accept the minimal part, especially after reading this forum. The human body can be amazing. Just wish I knew a way to take away his pain. Glad to hear you got through it all ok. Gives me hope and strength that we can beat this.
Wife to Steve 43. DX 5 May 09. T4N2MO SCC tongue, floor of mouth, lymph nodes & jaw bone No surgery radiation 13/07/2009 x 7wks chemo 15/07/2009 x 3 Cisplatin last TX 28/08/2009 25/11/2009 PET-lymph node activity. 08/01/2010 CT Scan-ALL CLEAR 03/03/2010-Peg removed 01/2013 left side of Jaw removed and replaced with pectoral flap. 23/12/2020 scan show lesion in tongue 01/2021 SCC stage 3 base of tongue diagnosed 01/03/2021 chemotherapy started. 17/03/22 lost the battle. Missed dearly
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