Eric, I don't think anyone could think you are weak. You are going through a very hard time right now. Most people take pride in how they look so your feelings are completley understandable. I hope by knowing you have support and understanding here it will help you through this change.

I started seeing a therapist after my diagnosis and found it to be very helpful. Have you tried anything like that?

Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)