Sara

Sorry to hear about the divorce. It must be very difficult for you to dea with this after taking care of your husband. Do not take any blame personally. It wasnt youthat chose divorce. You did the right thing by taking care of him and supporting him thru OC. If he would become sick again, hopefully his new support system will step up to his needs. Nobody knows what the future holds.

Do not allow this to stop you from attending a walk. If you are anywhere near the Bethlehem area, there is one on May 2. Many OCF members, myself included will be attending that one. We would love for you to be there.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile