David,

I love your "Wizard of Oz' scale. Well said.

Sara,

I sorry this turned out this way but if that is how he feels, you will be better off without him. Get on with YOUR life and do not blame yourself. You did all you could and then some.

Take care,
Eileen


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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I