Hi, Last Nov. I was in the same place you are right now. Shock, disbelief and totally freaked out. We also are into organic gardening, hiking, vitamins, herbs, etc. How on earth could this happen to us. I've come to the realization that cancer can and does happen no matter what. It still seems unreal at times. I often feel like I'm in a parallel universe, but then I realize that this is our new reality. Unchartered territory.
My husband, Richard, also had an enlarged lymph node. The first needle biopsy was negative, but when they retested 6 wks later they found SCC in the node. After subsequent tests they found a small mass at the base of the tongue. All the other tests were negative and the RO told us that the radiation would shrink the lymph node and get rid of the cancer.
We are doing 3x Cisplatin and 7 weeks of IMRT rad. Richard just finished his 3rd week with 4 more to go. Believe me, I'm counting the days. I know he will still be recuperating after that, but not having to go through any more treatments will be wonderful. I'm surprised that they are not doing chemo. I always thought that with a node involved that was the standard treatment. Gather as much info as possible from this wonderful site before you see the doctors. Knowledge is power and you will feel more in control and informed. Richard also has a peg tube and we are very glad for it. Your husband will adjust to it and then he'll be able to "eat" when his throat is too sore. As long as he continues to swallow he'll get through it. Ask me any questions. Geri