Sorry to heary your mom isnt tolerating the chemo very well. Cisplain was very rough on me too. Hope she can have a smaller dose or maybe switch to something easier tolerated. The side effects are pretty bad but its necessary.

One thing you mentioned previously was about your mom's treatment plan being pre-determined before treatment began. From my experience (I am not a doctor or in the medical field), everyone's tx is planned. This is something that can be changed. I know mine was and many others on here have been changed also. The doctors need to be flexible if a patient isnt handling their tx very well. Someone needs to confront the doctor and get the specifics as to why they are saying it cant be changed.

You mother needs to continue tx. Her doctor needs to know she is going to quit due to the side effects.

Best of luck to you and your mom.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile