thank you christine, I really hated to ask because it will be for so long. when I had my surgery, my grand daughter came home from the hospital with me. left the kids with her husband and wanted to stay all night, but I told her no so she came back every morning for a week and call a couple times a day. If I need her she will get a setter and come, just hate to take her away from her family, her husband has to cook for himself when she's not at home, he's sweet, but shouldn't have to come home and cook after an 12 hour day at work. she's the only one that don't work full time, the rest can help here and there. I think I'll wait on the cancer center till last, funny that lady made me cry and I don't know why, maybe because I didn't believe her, it was the first time that I cried in front of someone, I do my crying when I'm alone. I'm a odd ball. hope every thing is going alright for you, I haven't had much time to read the broad.
Have a good night.
Ruby