Jennifer-Does your husband have any friends or relatives that could talk to him? Maybe even someone from Hospice? I don't know if this is possible because of his hesitation with other people. Take care of yourself-if you get too stressed out it will take a toll on YOUR health.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.