Liz, I am so sorry there has been no resolution about this. Of *course* you are upset about the police covertly watching Robin's grave on the anniversary of his death. I can see why they want to do it but the grief you'll be feeling on that day will be hard enough without knowing you are being watched by strangers.

Nelie

SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"