Liz,

You are a very intelligent woman who has been put thru the ringer in the past year or so but I don't want you to get down on yourself. You were the very best wife and caregiver that Robin or anyone could have had. You are not responsible for, nor in control, of what happened to Robin or his brother so please just take a deep breath and lets see how this plays out. It is unfortunate to say the least but lets keep this latest tragedy in perspective until the whole story unfoils.



David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.