Mark is right, this has turned into something special. This has been a bad week for Jack with multiple complications and the thougts expressed here have kept me going. I'd like to add my favorite quote by Louisa May Alcott - "Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead."

Every day is another chance to try again.
Regards JoAnne

JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.