DIxie you certainly have lot to deal with at the moment and I just wantd to add my warm thoughts and wishes for you.
If you would like come and join us on the forum "Friends".
Brian geneously gave us the space to communicate in a nonsense manner with all the friends we have made here. You are welcome to join us... we have a lovely Island with no worries just a place to realax and get pampered for a while ( all imaginary of course)
Take Care Dixie