Shar,

I tend not to respond much if all I have is "warm fuzzies" to give to other posters instead of practical help, but I can't help but to try and send love and hugs your way...you just have had a really hard road these past months. I try to imagine juggling a young family, a job and OC...so hard!

I guess what I want to say is that even those of us who just read and don't respond a lot, care deeply, shed tears, and try to send strength to those that need it the most at that particular time.

My best to you and everyone on this board dealing with almost impossible circumstances. I am listening and I am hoping.....Deb