Shar, you have been there for me and if I didn't have to start that radChemo, i wold go to the hospital and sit with you. You are not being crazy or paranoid. You are being a good mother to your daughter. Tell the hubby ot get his butt in gear and make him go with you. As for the ex gfriend. I would tell her to walk outon the interstate and play in the traffic. If she gives you any problems or bothers you in any way go to the hospital supervisor and get something done about her. I am sure he will do something and get her off you and you husbands back. This is unethical for her to be trying to ruin your life after that many years or even if it were 1 day. I can tell you are worried about youo daughter as we all would be, so just do the best you can for her and stay with her. We all love you here and will be praying for your daughter and you.