Deb, I'm glad you vented here to the understanding people that come here. We all understand and I'm sure they will give you good advice to follow. I don't envy you for going thru this mess but you seem like a strong person and will come to grips with it soon. You are in my prayers as you Dad is. Just don't blame your Dad for doing it and it will help. You have to sorry for him and love him.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here