I am really sorry Tonya. Whatever time you and your family have together with your brother, I hope is pain free, filled with love and lasts longer than anyone dreamed it would.

By all means make sure he does the will ASAP. Here is a link you might find helpful for legal forms and end of life issues. familycaregiversonline I would not advise you to rely on an online form as his final will, however any legal will is probably better than no will at all.

Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.