Hi Mica:
Danny is right on with his commentary above. He was extemely depressed (but still humorous for a Texan!) for a long time post-treatment. It took a village but he is in a really good place last I heard from him. Please take your inspiration from honest guys like Danny-depression is part of the deal and it does get better.

Kim

kcdc
Wife of Dave,diagnosed with Stage III Tonsillar SCC,August '02
Modified radical neck dissection followed by radiation therapy
'There is glory and radiance in the darkness and to see we have only to look"