Mandi,

I'm hoping and praying that this will be the step your husband needs (and that it will help you get some peace). In the case of one of my relatives, rehab seemed to be what it took to jolt him out of denial and push him toward taking responsibility for himself. Thankfully he's been clean and sober for over a dozen years and has been instrumental in helping a number of other people get into AA.

Please take care of yourself and let us know how you're doing.

Cathy

Tongue SCC (T2M0N0), poorly differentiated, diagnosed 3/89, partial glossectomy and neck dissection 4/89, radiation from early June to late August 1989