Right on lady
Wish I had your strength, me I'm still burying my head in the sand.. So while you have some space get YOUR LIFE BACK.. run if you have to, get what ever support you can and GO.. find a womens refuge if you have to, you have to grab this one chance before it disappears, me I messed up my one chance to get out, and boy am I regreting it now.. Will be thinking of you..
Find your sunshine again.. love and hugs
Helen

SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04