I am a caregiver in a community based residential facility in Wisc. I urge you to contact the local hospice center in Madison, Wi. Their office is on Cheryl Parkway, right off Fish Hatchery, Working with Alzheimers and Dementia, we use Hospice all the time, and Hospice is the best organization to help you at this time, My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.