This is for Brian, and Marcy
I have been in both spots, I was the caregiver for my father w/bladder cancer. He battled it for 10 years. I would pray that God let him stay w/us a little longer. After 10 years the dr. gave us 6months, I stopped the prays for him to live a little longer for us. I prayed for him to be taken gently, for we had been told bladder cancer was one of the most painful. I also had SCC base of tongue stage IV. We lost dad July 27, 2003 He told us he would be in a better place and closed his eyes and was gone. I pray that if this thing gets me, I can go like he did. Just be there for your family members, and let them know you love them, even when you don't think they can hear you, they can!! God be w/you and yours!