Hello Petey its Karen, I am going to skip all of the me stuff for now(you can read that somewhere else). I am so sorry about the extra hassel you are having with your properties and stuff, but don't worry. Take a few small steps at a time- it will all pan out. My real concern is those bumps on your neck and chin. My dad got those after his first surgery and they were very painful and never went away. We never found out what they were and asked every visit. Toward the and of my dads illness like two of the bigger ones burst and sank in like a kind of abcess. The bump was still there, and big, but then had a big scab on it. Maybe you can have some kind of biopsy or something? Whatever it is have it looked at and watch for changes in size etc. Take care Karen PS Stress is not good for ANYTHING- find something that you enjoy and try to do it everyday.