I would be more worried if you didn't leave since that would be "enabling" and not healthy for either one of you. I can also understand where you would be second guessing yourself.

It is a healthy boundary and Robin needs to know that there are consequences for his actions. You gave him a choice and he chose the unhealthy activities - it's really on him. Doesn't make it any easier to sit back watch it though...


Gary Allsebrook
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Dx 11/22/02, SCC, 6 x 3 cm Polypoid tumor, rt tonsil, Stage III/IVA, T3N0M0 G1/2
Tx 1/28/03 - 3/19/03, Cisplatin ct x2, IMRT, bilateral, with boost, x35(69.96Gy)
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"You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes" (James 4:14 NIV)