Michelle,
I'm sure other people will give you some suggestions for coping with the thick mucous, but the first thing that comes to my mind is advice that I received from Joanna, another OCF member. Roll up some
gauze squares (4x4" ones work well, but any gauze will do) and have Dan put them in the gutter between his teeth and cheeks. The gauze will soak up a lot of the mucous. This works especially well at night, allowing one to sleep longer before having to spit or wipe out the mucous. As for wiping out the mucous,
Puffs brand tissues are strong enough to do the job, but are soft enough to not irritate.
Since Dan is in a weakened state, I think he would be helped by having a
suction machine similar to the ones dentists use. If the doctor writes an order for one, many insurance companies will pay for it. We rented a portable Yankeuer (sp?) from a medical supply company. It was a huge help. Sleeping with the head elevated can help, too. Many OCF members have slept in a recliner for weeks and even months during and after treatment. Having
sufficient moisture in the air is also important. Running a humidifier can be a great help in keeping the mucous thinned out.
Rainbows & hugs,
Rosie