Hello All: this is the first time I've visited this site. I'm very impressed with the interaction I'm seeing, so I'm going to ask for some input.....and I'm not very good at asking people for help.....but HELP!

My wonderful husband was dx'd with base of tongue cancer, T4A in December. He began treatment this week. He will have radiation (43 to complete) and chemo (3 total), no surgery. He saw 5 doctors from Feb 2004 until it was finally dx'd in December when he was 2 days away from brain surgery.....THAT would have been from the previous misdiagnosis. Anyway, we are very close, and I am so frightened. He is just so very weak and tired.....I can't believe how fast that happened. He has been in pain and on narcotics since Feb '04, but the treatments are really difficult. Any info anyone can provide would be helpful.
Thanks,
Michelle