Thank you so much all of you. Your words and just knowing how much you all understand what were going thru are true therapy for us. You just feel so alone sometimes, and we have a huge support group of friends and family, but I dont think people can really understand what its like. I had my husband read the posts and it has given him hope and comfort to know he's not alone...God Bless And Michele, all our best with your husbands surgery. Hopefully it will seem like a breeze compared to what he's been through...All our best

Kerry