Minnie,

The private message I referred to was sent to me, voicing approval for my post. The person didn't want to add to the discord, so didn't post it publicly. I guess I have not done a good job of explaining myself. My last post seems to have made things worse, so let me clarify:

Minnie, Your post did not "offend" me. And I'm sorry I upset you.

Sherry and Ken, I apologize for hijacking and ruining your post. Please don't let this episode of my bad judgement affect your participation on the forum.

Ed, I am trying to picture you lying on that gurney with a tube stuck in your nose. And at age 13, no less. I'm not sure "hero" would be what my 13 yr old friends would have been thinking! Just too funny! Thanks for trying to inject a lighter note.

Brian, I'm sorry I screwed up. I'm bowing out now, too. It might be wise to lock this thread.

Rosie

Was primary caregiver to my daughter Heather who had stage IV base of tongue SCC w/ primary recurrence. Original diagnosis August 21st, 2002. Primary recurrence March 18th, 2003. Died October 6th, 2003.