Minne, that would have been a long story, plus a bad case of chemo brain (that excuse works pretty well) and me trying to remember who was there without using my "cheat sheet." and yes your lack of presence was noted. Santa will bring an extra lump of coal.
I did forget to mention that Rosie and her husband were there, again, if I had been using my list instead of my listless mind I might have gotten it right the first time.
So, see you next year hopefully
Bob