Marliz (and others) - you asked if anyone could relate. I certainly can and I'm sure there are many others who do also. That is what makes this site so wonderful. There are others out there who have gone through or are going through similar experiences. I now have 2 scars - 2 neck dissections 14 years apart. Both times I was very self conscious about the scar right after the surgery and found various ways to cover it up. Now I'm not so concerned about them. My numbness did get better although I still have some numbness on my face along my jaw line and one side of my neck. Good luck with the radiation.