Veronica, my mom, too, went through several surgeries in a fight with another type of cancer. Through it all, she later told me, it was touch that was most comforting -- a hand on her shoulder, combing her hair, etc. I felt I needed to be strong for her, but counted on friends who let me vent when need be. You can vent here, among friends, so please take advantage of us. Even if it at sometimes seems that there is nothing you can do, remember that your presence is a gift greater than you can imagine. Know you are not alone.

Joanna